The place where we live is becoming more and more unsafe for us. Our safety is in our hands, be it any place that we are in maybe streets, a public area, or maybe even a hotel room we have to be cautious. On TikTok, there are a series of videos where Allie Lovegood, an abuse recovery coach gives tips to be safe when we travel. Though we think hotel rooms are safe they are not, and she had shared some good tips that would help us.
She had shared with the Bored Panda that at first, she had learned the tips from one of her friends, a former police officer. She had said that the response she received for her TikTok videos was supportive as many of her followers are women who either travel alone or have been victims of domestic violence rape or robbery.
She had said that the main thing we have to do is observe the behavior of the people around, and that had helped her a lot to leave that place and be safe. Also, she had said that even she had faced domestic violence and emotional abuse and that what she wants is to help people who are in such situations. She had said that she had left her abuser in 2019 in the month of December and after it had taken her five months to start to recover. And then she had started to talk about what happened with her and had said that she doesn’t want herself to be in such a situation again in life.
#1. On TikTok, Allie had Shared hotel security tips that would help us while we travel.
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She had said that, as she had changed a lot according to that person’s wants she had to find herself from the beginning. And that discovering herself again had been a good thing for her. She had said that she has very solid boundaries for people and if they don’t respect it there’s no place for them in her life. Also, she had been taking a defense class from Ernest ‘The Cat’ Miller which had helped her in gaining confidence.
And now she helps people as an abuse recovery coach, and she had said that she helps her clients until they are in no need of her. And what she wants is for them to be confident and she loves to help them. Also, she had given some supportive words for people who suffer from such happenings. She had said for them not to give up and they can live as they want happily. And all they have to do is decide and get out of the trouble. And she had mentioned her schedule in her bio if anyone needed her help.
#2. In her videos, she tells how to check the mirrors to know if they are two-way or not.
#4. Also had explained how we should lock the door of the room.
#9. And also had said a room near a staircase is more suitable than one near an elevator for emergencies.
#11. And shared how to check if there are any hidden cameras in the room.
#13. Co-Founder and Executive Director of Hollaback, Emily May had also given some advice about staying safe in a chat with the Bored Panda.
#14. How TikTok users had commented on Allie’s tips of security.
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